By Tina Wakefield
There is no way to describe the impact a mother has on her family whether good or otherwise, a motherâ€™s presence is felt and missed. I recently spoke with one of Gospel musicâ€™s mothers, Kelly Bowling, on life with her family on and off the road.
Kelly Bowling is no stranger to traveling with family, singing and ministering across this country as she traveled with The Crabb Family for many years. She grew up, met and married Mike Bowling all while traveling with her mother and family in a bus across many highways and states.
Kelly recalls traveling with her mother, Kathy Crabb Hannah, in those early days of married life. â€œHope Bowling was the first grandchild that traveled with us. It was very special having my mother there, to help with Hope and playing dress up with my motherâ€™s make-up in the back of the bus. Watching my mother create a close bond with her was very special to me.â€
Kathy Hannah still boards the Bowling bus from time to time and travels with Kelly, Mike and the girls. Kelly says, â€œNot too much has changed, my mother helps me with the kids and she gets to be the fun one now with less pressure on her. I have a greater respect and appreciation for my mother now that I am the mother of this group and responsible for day- to-day requirements of this ministry.â€
Traveling with three kids is not an easy life and there are many sacrifices and obstacles to overcome. Confined in the space of a tour bus for extended time there is no privacy and the lack of space can be a challenge. Kelly says that for a mother, you worry about your kids missing so much that other children get to experience. â€œFor a ministry family [the children miss the]Â Friday night outings that their friends go on, weekends at the park, at a playground or a movie. You feel guilty at times that your children are on a bus traveling to the next church to minister. I want my girls to not feel deprived of these things but appreciate a life of ministry, of reaching others in need of salvation, hope and encouragement. This life is a calling and I have built a lifetime of relationships on the road which I still have, and I can see that for my girls.â€
To help the Bowling girls with the life on the road, Kelly plans special outings with each daughter. â€œBeing on the bus together we donâ€™t get a lot of one on one time with each other, so when we are home Iâ€™ll take them out at times alone to shop, or a movie, or just time to spend with each one alone.â€ On the bus the kids are usually on their Ipad, Ipod, teasing their cousin who travels with them or flipping from bunk to bunk. Time on the bus is family time with everyone just being silly, joking, and playing around.
In October of 2014, when an opportunity opened for a singer with the Bowlings, thoughts about how to fill the space presented a challenge. Then the unexpected happened: Hope Bowling, the oldest of Mike and Kellyâ€™s three girls, decided that she would like to fill that position. Kelly says, â€œI didnâ€™t see that coming. I had hoped that she would one day, and I knew she could. We were thrilled.â€ The joke between Mike and Kelly is, â€œShe works cheap!â€ Hope Bowling fills the position well and is a very talented and anointed young lady.
I asked Hope why she decided to join her family in ministry and she replied, â€œI love to see the faces of the people and how the lyrics of the songs touch them. I was excited when my parents presented the opportunity to me.â€ At 15, she will be one of the young artists to watch and see what God has in store. We could literally take the scripture from Proverbs 22:6 that says, â€œtrain up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.â€ Mike and Kelly Bowling are truly training up their girls in a ministry/Christ-centered life of giving of themselves. This lifestyle did not come by chance because the same could be said of Kathy Hannah who instilled the same lifestyle of ministry in Kelly and her family in their early lives.
This thought brings about the scripture from Proverbs 31 that states, â€œHer children arise up and call her blessed.â€ Hope states that she admires her mom for her anointing and hard work ethic, and says, â€œshe is someone I look up to.â€ I asked about her grandmother Kathy and she said that her go-get-it attitude, work ethic, and genuine honesty with people, are traits she admires.
If Hope Bowling joining the family ministry is any sign of what is to come, then Gracie and Katelanne Bowling are worthy of our attention and prayers. I asked 11-year-old Katelanne what is the best and worst thing about traveling with her family. She says that she loves going to new places but the downside is that she doesnâ€™t get to spend time with her friends as much. Katelanne is not sure about what she wants for her future yet but loves to sing with her sisters, especially the song, â€œIt Is Well With My Soul.â€ She looks up to her mom for lots of reasons but says that cooking is not one of them, which this brought lots of laughter from all those listening. The best dish would have to be Kellyâ€™s lasagna and the worst would be spaghetti. Katelanne would love for everyone to know that her grandmother Kathy really likes to talk to people and loves Facebook. I asked her if there was anything she would change on their family bus and she replied, â€œYes, my x-box and a private room.â€
Gracie is the youngest of the three girls and perhaps the most vocal. Maybe you have seen the Gracie Show that Kathy Hannah posts on Facebook. If the Gracie Show is a taste of what is to come, we all better pay attention to her. When I asked Gracie what she wanted everyone to know about her mother she says, â€œShe is a really nice person and really pretty.â€ Gracie says about her grandmother, â€œShe is not afraid to say what she thinks.â€
Gracie says that traveling is great because they get to visit lots of different places, her favorite of which is the beach. She says that she gets to go on cruises, which she enjoys. She is not sure what she would like to pursue in life yet but would love to be on Broadway. She would love to be able to travel to New York City to ride the subway and see the tall buildings.
Who knows what the future holds for the Bowling girls as they travel and minister with the family. One thing is for sure; after speaking with Kelly is that they are instilled with the Christâ€“centered life and the value of sowing into others. Proverbs 31:31 says of a mother, â€œGive her the fruit of her hands and let her own works praise her in the gates.â€ Kathy Crabb Hannah sowed into the life of her daughter Kelly Bowling, and Kelly is sowing into the life of her daughters Hope, Katelanne, and Gracie.
â€œEven though the accolades are nice and appreciated, the focus must always be on God at all times,â€ says Kelly. â€œMike and I have the same priority and values. God must be the focus and center of all that we accomplish.â€
A life on the road is not an easy task but one that Kelly Bowling has embraced with her family. Her girls will debut their first CD this year, The Bowling Sisters and Kelly is now reaching out to speak at ladiesâ€™ events along with Kathy who is currently conducting ladiesâ€™ retreats. I am very excited to watch this family as God unfolds His plan in their lives. I am convinced that this is a family who strives to hear from God and accomplish what He puts in their spirit with total honesty and conviction in a time when compromise is an easy path to follow. I encourage you to contact The Bowling Family at www.bowlingsonline.com
By Tina Wakefield
In-Concert Photographs by Candi Combs
First published by SGN Scoops in May 2015. For current issues of SGN Scoops, visit the SGN Scoops mainpage.